Alright, so after two months of anger and frustration, having to fall back to nouevau to even start the desktop. NVIDIA has now fixed the GNU+Linux bug causing the gpu driver to crash, just for using a display port connection.
Finally, wonder what took them so Long.
Two months, to fix such an obvious issue...
Well, bye Nvidia, already upgraded to AMD.
Aaaannnnd it's broken again, oh wait, just corrupt update, had to boot into fail safe and reinstall.